Divorce Timeline
TLDR:
Fastest possible: 60–90 days
Typical uncontested: 2–4 monthsTypical contested: 6–12 monthsHigh-conflict / custody war: 12–24+ months
1. Filing the Complaint
Day 0
One party files. Congratulations, the clock officially starts ticking.
2. Mandatory Waiting Period (the State’s “think about it” phase)
No minor children: 60 days
With minor children: 90 days
This is the absolute fastest a divorce can be finalized, even if everyone’s holding hands and singing Kumbaya.
3. Service of Process
Days–Weeks
The other spouse must be served (sheriff, process server, or waiver).
If they dodge service like it’s dodgeball in middle school, expect delays.
4. Answer Filed
Within 30 days of service
Failure to answer = potential default (rare, but it happens).
5. Temporary Motions (if needed)
Weeks 4–12
Covers:
Parenting time
Child support
Alimony
Exclusive use of the home
Bills
Not required in uncontested cases. Very common in contested ones.
6. Discovery
Months 2–6 (or longer)
Exchange of:
Bank statements
Retirement accounts
Income
Debts
Skeletons 🦴
Uncontested cases may skip this entirely. Contested cases live here.
7. Mediation (usually required)
Months 3–9
Most Tennessee courts require mediation before trial.
This is where cases either:
Settle like adults, or
Dig in and get expensive.
8. Settlement or Trial
If Settled:
MDA + Parenting Plan drafted
Final hearing scheduled
Judge signs off
👉 Total time:
Uncontested: ~2–4 months
Semi-contested: ~4–8 months
If Tried:
Trial dates depend on the court (often 6–18 months out)
Final order entered after the judge issues a ruling
👉 Total time:
Fully contested: 9 months to 2+ years
9. Final Decree Entered
Once signed and entered, you’re legally divorced.
Emotionally? That timeline varies wildly.
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